To my family that is celebrating the new year... Have a great one. Wish we could have celebrated together. Let all meet in Florida next year and we can celebrate twice... one Welsh and the second American... Besides it will be warmer there than either of our places.
To my American born relatives... Celebrate smartly tonight...
To all may we have a great NEW YEAR 2009.....
Hope we can all get together soon!!!
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Monday, December 29, 2008
The Four "C's" of Development
1.) you must start out being Committed to what you are doing.
2.) Through Commitment, you develop Competence.
3.) Through Competence, you gain Confidence.
Now that you have Commitment, Competence, and Confidence you can obtain the final "C"... Courage.
2.) Through Commitment, you develop Competence.
3.) Through Competence, you gain Confidence.
Now that you have Commitment, Competence, and Confidence you can obtain the final "C"... Courage.
1.) Keep skid chains on your tongue, Always say less than you think. Cultivate a low, persuasive voice. How you say it often counts more than what you say.
2.) Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully, no matter what the cost.
3.) Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it.
4.) Be interested in others: their pursuits, their work, their homes and their families. Make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as a person of importance.
5.) Be cheerful. Don't burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of burden.
6.) Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue. It is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.
7.) Let your virtues, if you have any, speak for themselves. Refuse to talk about the vices of others. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time and can be destructive and hurtful.
8.) Take into consideration the feelings of others. Wit and humor at the expense of another is never worth the pain that may be inflected.
9.) Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. Simply live so that nobody will believe him. Disordered nerves and bad digestion are a common cause of backbiting.
10.) Don't be anxious about the credit due. Do your best and be patient. Forget about yourself and let others "remember." Sucess is much sweeter that way.
2.) Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully, no matter what the cost.
3.) Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it.
4.) Be interested in others: their pursuits, their work, their homes and their families. Make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as a person of importance.
5.) Be cheerful. Don't burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of burden.
6.) Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue. It is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.
7.) Let your virtues, if you have any, speak for themselves. Refuse to talk about the vices of others. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time and can be destructive and hurtful.
8.) Take into consideration the feelings of others. Wit and humor at the expense of another is never worth the pain that may be inflected.
9.) Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. Simply live so that nobody will believe him. Disordered nerves and bad digestion are a common cause of backbiting.
10.) Don't be anxious about the credit due. Do your best and be patient. Forget about yourself and let others "remember." Sucess is much sweeter that way.
Ten Commandments of How to Get Along With People from Ann Landers
1.) Keep skid chains on your tongue, Always say less than you think. Cultivate a low, persuasive voice. How you say it often counts more than what you say.
2.) Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully, no matter what the cost.
3.) Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it.
4.) Be interested in others: their pursuits, their work, their homes and their families. Make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as person of importance.
5.) Be cheerful. Don't burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of burden.
6.) Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue. It is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.
7.) Let your virtues, if you have any, speak for themselves. Refuse to talk about the vices of others. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time and can be destructive and hurtful.
8.) Take into consideration the feelings of others. Wit and humor at the expense of another is never worth the pain that may be inflected.
9.) Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. Simply live so that nobody will believe him. Disordered nerves and bad digestion are a common cause of backbiting.
10.) Don't be anxious about the credit due. Do your best and be patient. Forget about yourself and let others "remember." Success is much sweeter that way.
2.) Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully, no matter what the cost.
3.) Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it.
4.) Be interested in others: their pursuits, their work, their homes and their families. Make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as person of importance.
5.) Be cheerful. Don't burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of burden.
6.) Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue. It is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.
7.) Let your virtues, if you have any, speak for themselves. Refuse to talk about the vices of others. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time and can be destructive and hurtful.
8.) Take into consideration the feelings of others. Wit and humor at the expense of another is never worth the pain that may be inflected.
9.) Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. Simply live so that nobody will believe him. Disordered nerves and bad digestion are a common cause of backbiting.
10.) Don't be anxious about the credit due. Do your best and be patient. Forget about yourself and let others "remember." Success is much sweeter that way.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Christmas
Another Christmas has come and passed. Dad and I spent the morning opening our gifts to each other. Dad got a new 42" TV for the bedroom, a DS Lites game, some games for his DS, a new mega flashlite for the motorhome, a mini flashlite for his keys, a new wallet and it seems like I am missing something. I got a Wii and Wii fit set.
About 1 o'clock Casi called and they wanted us to come to their house, we had just started playing with the Wii so we packed it up. We took our air matress and headed up to Casi's. We set up the Wii after the boys went to bed. Of course Austin told me he didn't like Wiis. So when I got him up Fri. morning it was set up and his Mom and I bowled each other. Pretty soon he wanted to try. Then he took over everyone. And he doesn't like Wii. We packed up to go and he wanted me to leave my Wii. No way Jose. On the way home Dad and I started making calls back home to different shops. The weather was as foggy as the night Santa discovered he needed Rudolph. Dad drove to Champaign to Game Stop and got a Wii for Austin and his family. Shortly after Dad left me off at the house, Casi, Shane, Austin and Devon show up at our house. What a surprise... We had just left their house. Glad Dad got the Wii. The girls arrived home to their mom's after a week at their Dad's. On Sat. the girls arrived as planned to open their presents. Austin was shocked at all of his and Devon's and Momy and Daddy's Wii and Wii stuff. He said I knew Grandmummy would get me one. We had a great Saturday. Rachel went ice skating with Austin, Casi and Shane. Then Shane went and purchased another Wii remote so they could have two people playing against each other. He was playing on my Wii when noone else was around... It was 70 degrees outside... sit inside in December and it being 70... no way! All in all we had a blast. However since the weather was sooo bad on Friday where Lara lives they didn't come home... so sad. My Mum did venture out and she ate with us and watched the great-grandchildren enjoy opening their presents. Devon got a bunch of cars.
About 1 o'clock Casi called and they wanted us to come to their house, we had just started playing with the Wii so we packed it up. We took our air matress and headed up to Casi's. We set up the Wii after the boys went to bed. Of course Austin told me he didn't like Wiis. So when I got him up Fri. morning it was set up and his Mom and I bowled each other. Pretty soon he wanted to try. Then he took over everyone. And he doesn't like Wii. We packed up to go and he wanted me to leave my Wii. No way Jose. On the way home Dad and I started making calls back home to different shops. The weather was as foggy as the night Santa discovered he needed Rudolph. Dad drove to Champaign to Game Stop and got a Wii for Austin and his family. Shortly after Dad left me off at the house, Casi, Shane, Austin and Devon show up at our house. What a surprise... We had just left their house. Glad Dad got the Wii. The girls arrived home to their mom's after a week at their Dad's. On Sat. the girls arrived as planned to open their presents. Austin was shocked at all of his and Devon's and Momy and Daddy's Wii and Wii stuff. He said I knew Grandmummy would get me one. We had a great Saturday. Rachel went ice skating with Austin, Casi and Shane. Then Shane went and purchased another Wii remote so they could have two people playing against each other. He was playing on my Wii when noone else was around... It was 70 degrees outside... sit inside in December and it being 70... no way! All in all we had a blast. However since the weather was sooo bad on Friday where Lara lives they didn't come home... so sad. My Mum did venture out and she ate with us and watched the great-grandchildren enjoy opening their presents. Devon got a bunch of cars.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Holiday Baking and Cooking
I have been soooo busy cooking... and then the weather came. I am freezing and refrigerating everything I can so I can have it ready to go on Jan. 5, 2009 when we go back to work. Today's weather --- freezing rain. Tomorrow's weather --- freezing rain. Lucky for us we are celebrating Christmas on Saturday since Lara has to work on Christmas Eve. It will probably be the last time we will get to see Isabela as she will be heading back to Brazil too soon after Christmas.
Casi had some teeth pulled today as she has wizdom teeth that seem to be getting in the way of her eating. After the holidays she is going in to have some cut out. Dad or I will be going up to her house to help with the kids unless Shane can get the day off from work.
Don't be shy about posting your ideas or remarks. Have fun and have a safe holiday.
Casi had some teeth pulled today as she has wizdom teeth that seem to be getting in the way of her eating. After the holidays she is going in to have some cut out. Dad or I will be going up to her house to help with the kids unless Shane can get the day off from work.
Don't be shy about posting your ideas or remarks. Have fun and have a safe holiday.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Some pictures of the new motorcycle
Time to get caught up on photos.
This picture is of Chris getting ready to go for a ride on Dad's new motorcycle.
This is Kristina and Dustin getting ready to go on a date riding Dad's new motorcycle.
This picture is of Chris getting ready to go for a ride on Dad's new motorcycle.
This is Kristina and Dustin getting ready to go on a date riding Dad's new motorcycle.
Friday, December 19, 2008
Nadolig Llawen
Nadolig Llawen a Blwyddyn Newydd Dda
It is almost time for the jolly red suited man to arrive at our homes. May you all have a wonderful holiday season. I will have more time to post since we are on Nadolig Llawen break.
I will see you all in Newydd Dda --- 2009.
Peace and love
I am heading out to eat with James and my Mum.
It is almost time for the jolly red suited man to arrive at our homes. May you all have a wonderful holiday season. I will have more time to post since we are on Nadolig Llawen break.
I will see you all in Newydd Dda --- 2009.
Peace and love
I am heading out to eat with James and my Mum.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Benefit Others - http://alternativegifts.org/
I was reading the school news today - There is a website that was mentioned that if you would like to give to others you can go to and help. It is called http://alternativegifts.org/
I went to their website and it looks very interesting. I am not sure of any specifics, however I think it is worth checking out if you feel the need to give during this season or any other time of the year.
My children were raised giving to families or others during the Christmas season. However the Angel Trees are not child specific any longer and I find it hard to donate gifts, especially some that are being asked for. -- Wii --- video games --- ds lites ---- these gifts are toys - expensive toys - ones most of us can barely afford to give to our own members of our families.
Well any how check out this great site. I know my Lara will be impressed with it. Peace. Have a great holiday season where ever you may live.
I went to their website and it looks very interesting. I am not sure of any specifics, however I think it is worth checking out if you feel the need to give during this season or any other time of the year.
My children were raised giving to families or others during the Christmas season. However the Angel Trees are not child specific any longer and I find it hard to donate gifts, especially some that are being asked for. -- Wii --- video games --- ds lites ---- these gifts are toys - expensive toys - ones most of us can barely afford to give to our own members of our families.
Well any how check out this great site. I know my Lara will be impressed with it. Peace. Have a great holiday season where ever you may live.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Christmas Shopping
I am about shopped out. I still feel I am not done. I may have to do some when I go to Lara's house on Saturday. I don't even have my presents wrapped yet. I am so far behind. I need to take a count of gifts to make sure I have gifts for everyone and that they are wrapped. I need to get the tree up. If Lara and her family aren't coming for Christmas I may not even get the big one out and just use the little one. It seems I have been so over worked this year. Have fun shopping all of you that like to shop. I think I will finish by getting online and shopping. Much easier than fighting my way through crowded stores with all the crazed people.
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Geo Caching Vacation
How about a geo caching vacation this summer? Think about it. I know it is almost winter, however the summer will be here before you know it. Let's start planning.
Christmas Plans
Wow Christmas is just around the corner. I tell my students each year on the first day of school, "I hope you are about done with your Christmas shopping." They are always that's a long way off. Well the time seems to fly by and they always say about this time, "Man I should have started shopping in September." Haha time does fly.
I have been busy with my shopping. I now have the gifts laid out to see whom I need to purchase more for to get the right balance. I am pretty close on everyone. Just a few more small items for some is all I need.
Some folks in this family are really tough to find the perfect gift for as they are either, "I deserve better than this." even though you have spent a few hundred dollars on them, or they just don't have a list, or what is on their list is just plan too expensive or something they will probably never use.
James wants a new flat panel for our bedroom, however he wants it to be at least a 32 inch screen. I don't think we need that large.
It is a challenge and he is basically the only one I have left to buy for.
I have been busy with my shopping. I now have the gifts laid out to see whom I need to purchase more for to get the right balance. I am pretty close on everyone. Just a few more small items for some is all I need.
Some folks in this family are really tough to find the perfect gift for as they are either, "I deserve better than this." even though you have spent a few hundred dollars on them, or they just don't have a list, or what is on their list is just plan too expensive or something they will probably never use.
James wants a new flat panel for our bedroom, however he wants it to be at least a 32 inch screen. I don't think we need that large.
It is a challenge and he is basically the only one I have left to buy for.
"Black Friday" Shopping
Isabela wanted to experience Black Friday shopping. So after we ate, I went home with Lara, Chris and Isabela. We arrived at their place at about 11:00 PM on Thanksgiving nite. At midnight, Isabela, Lara and myself went shopping at the outlet mall. The store Isabela wanted to go to had a line 3 blocks long. Needless to say we didn't stand in line there. We did find Devon a Christmas gift. And we got Christopher a gift. Then Lara and I each purchased a new pair of tennis shoes. Isabela purchased Chris' gift also. We went back to Lara and Chris' (2:30 AM) and went to sleep for a couple of hours. Lara was scheduled to work at 7:30 AM. Chris woke up to take her to work and he and I went out shopping. We didn't have much luck with finding what we set out to find. However we did find a few bargins. James drove up to Lara's to pick me up and then he joined us on the ultimate gift hunt. We finished some of our shopping while there. I found that the bargins of the past were not there and that it was hardly worth it to go. But of course I don't like shopping so I guess you can't be disappointed if you don't get excited about the chase. My thoughts about this whole black Friday thing is that the real bargins happen about the end of January and that is when you should be shopping for next Christmas.
Happy Holiday
Thanksgiving has come and gone. We had quite a few family members come for a great meal. This year we had it at Mom's. She was down in her leg, so getting up the front steps to my home would have been a challenge for her. I did help prepare the meal and my great husband helped to get the place ready. This year, since we were going to serve the evening meal, we decided to do something different. We had chicken and noodles instead of turkey. Besides Turkey's were just overpriced and I wasn't willing to pay it. I managed to make some goodies the morning of the party - peanut brittle, brownies made the ole fashion way, rice krispie treats, pickle wraps, and waterchestnuts wrapped in bacon. Ashley and I made pink mints and cherry press cookies last week. All the treats were eaten and everyone took left overs home with them.
It was a great Thanksgivig.
It was a great Thanksgivig.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Presentation at the Transition Conference
I survived the speaking engagement. Actually it went very well. I have received many emails telling me how great it was and that they would like more information. I need to get the information into a format I can send over the Internet or burn a CD with the information on it.
I am getting prepared to go to another speaking engagement in December. James is going along since he has those days off. He will get to just relax and enjoy himself.
Well I need to get busy and do some more work for Monday.
I am getting prepared to go to another speaking engagement in December. James is going along since he has those days off. He will get to just relax and enjoy himself.
Well I need to get busy and do some more work for Monday.
Another Great Weekend
Lara, Chris and Isabela have just left. We had a great time. When they arrived Sat. we had pizza. In the evening a movie was watched by all except me. I needed to get work done on the computer for school on Monday. Then we played Worst-Case Scenario. Isabela and I were a team and Chris and Lara was a team. Isabela and I won.
Sunday morning we got up to a new time -- daylight savings time. That messed everyone up. LOL We cooked breakfast, invited mom over for lunch after church. We then went to mom's to get Lara and Chris's Christmas tree. Ornaments are still in the attic.
Rachel performed at the civic center for the hockey game. They are a group of very talented young ladies. We watched the hockey game and the fights. There was blood drawn just a few times.
Lara, Chris and Isabela left in time to get home for the Colts game. I did two more presentations for Monday.
James went for a motorcycle ride and Chris got to ride the new red bike.
Sunday morning we got up to a new time -- daylight savings time. That messed everyone up. LOL We cooked breakfast, invited mom over for lunch after church. We then went to mom's to get Lara and Chris's Christmas tree. Ornaments are still in the attic.
Rachel performed at the civic center for the hockey game. They are a group of very talented young ladies. We watched the hockey game and the fights. There was blood drawn just a few times.
Lara, Chris and Isabela left in time to get home for the Colts game. I did two more presentations for Monday.
James went for a motorcycle ride and Chris got to ride the new red bike.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Almost Halloween
I am glad to say that Trick or Treat is almost here. We only have 3 1/2 days of school this week. Halloween Day we will be having parent teacher conferences. I only have one scheduled this year. Maybe more will sign up soon. Usually folks just drop by to say "hey!" I have some of the greatest students and parents around. Of course just two weeks ago we had Swap Day and I had many parents then. Most of us talked then.
Well happy halloween. I will be writing later. I need to finish my presentation for the Transition Conference. AAAGGGHHH!!
It is about finished then I need to write the information for the folks that are coming to hear me present. I will have to rewrite it for the conference in December since I am making it a fall theme. Oh well I will only need to change backgrounds and maybe some of my transitions.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Where has October Gone
Here it is the 16th of October. The first quarter has quickly passed. I can feel Christmas Carols about to come bursting out of me. I know that if I find an XM station playing those songs I will be "blasting" them over my stereo. I had Rachel last night and the night before. Poor thing has to stay with grandpa and grandma 3 nights a week. Well sometimes I will take her home if she wants to go. Last night she didn't have skating practice, I offered to run her home since it was early. No she wanted to stay with her grandparents. We always have kept our doors open for them to come visit.
Casi called last night and wants me to find out where the train leaves up around where they live. They want to go to the Thomas the Train ride. I think it would be a great train ride to St. Louis and that riding Thomas would be WOW! I know that Devon will REALLY be excited and Austin will like it also.
All for right now.
Da Bo
Casi called last night and wants me to find out where the train leaves up around where they live. They want to go to the Thomas the Train ride. I think it would be a great train ride to St. Louis and that riding Thomas would be WOW! I know that Devon will REALLY be excited and Austin will like it also.
All for right now.
Da Bo
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Great Weekend
This weekend we spent picnicing, geocaching, and just havin' plain ole fashion fun. On Friday I had meetings all day. On Saturday I planned to get "tons" of work done. Instead I ended up working on things important for school... lessons. On Sunday I met up with the kids at Turkey Run. We cooked out, went on a hike, played, did some tumbling, then we went geocaching. The geocache was near a covered bridge. Isabella really likes America. However while geocaching it began to get dark, especially in the woods. This bothered her, but she stood strong and we all came out with just a few bug bites. When we first arrived at our geo spot there were some deer standing in a field. Leaving there the field was full of deer resting. She took lots of pictures of the animals. Chris and Isabella went back to Michigan City as Isabella had school Monday and Chris had to work half day. Lara came home with Kristina, Rachel, Ashley and me. What a surprise for her dad. He was glad to see her. On Monday I took Lara over to Kokomo so they could sign the paper work to sell their home there. I know Lara and Chris will miss it and I know their neighbors will miss them. Lara got the recipe for the sugar cream pie that is so wonderful. Lara, Chris and I went to have dinner at Outback... Bloomin' Onion, baby back ribs, sweet potatoes, apples and their bread. Great meal, good company, and many laughs. I headed home and Chris and Lara went geocaching. Now we are all back in the swing of things. Rachel is getting excited about going to the skating competitions. However many of them seem to fall on Jason's weekends. She is not happy. She is scared he will not take her to them. I hope he can find it in his "fatherly" heart to do what is important to his children. The activities they are involved in are important to them. It is important that they learn they are important and not just a financial "burden." Sometimes it is important to see that the money paid in support is not all the support that is needed for your children. Enough of my rantings and how disappointed I am in their father by how he treats them and their mother.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Dad and his 2008 Harley
Well, he is trading it in on a 2009 Kaw.... I know he loves Kaw's and really misses the one he used to have. The Harley just isn't real comfortable.
The meetings went well this morning. Just so much new to digest along with new reg. changes. I really wish someone in the congress would ask for teacher input....!
I am "decluttering" the attic. I have a little of every one's things up there, plus dad's and mine. I have a few antiques if any of you want them. (My family only.) There are two sets of dishes, one was my grandmother's and one was my mom's. I think Mom's we will use at Thanksgiving, since she just had her 90th party it would be great to use them again. We are so blessed to have a solid foundation for a family to build on. Of course the docs are telling us that she will probably live to be at least 120. I guess that is what honest, hard working, loving families have to look forward to.
I am very proud of all four of our children. You all understand hard work and dedication. Your financial sense makes you good strong people. I love the fact you are all good with money and managing credit. It shows in what you can purchase when you want it. I am proud of the fact that you are all going to college to become teachers and physical therapist. It is tough though on getting together since it seems between your work schedules and school we can't get together much. (Austin can't wait for the next vacation!)
Casi we are all proud of the fact you decided to go through with the brain surgery. You are showing us how strong you are. Dad and I have both discussed how much happier you seem and how you are more like the little girl with the ocean blue eyes and the big wide grin we knew.
It seems odd not having a million things to do. I have finally caught up with the work I needed to get done to feel prepared for school. I am now a week ahead of schedule and I can now get a few weeks ahead I hope.
Next Saturday I will probably be doing Sat. school as Brenda asked me to do it. I always let the "young ones" have an opportunity to do it for the extra pay, however she doesn't want that next week because of how many and who the students are. The good thing about it is the pay on payday.
The desk I designed for Nichole is working great. She really loves it. Now she can be in her wheelchair and do homework with enough area to work and within her field of vision.
I do have a gripe with someone, but I won't put it on here in case they decide to read it. He just.... Oh well some folks just don't understand what family is and how you should own up to your responsibilities... Co-operation is important to keep children okay. I don't like the childish game playing. Besides he didn't do much supporting when married so why when your not. Get the hint! Besides this is my site and I have a right to my opinion and the knowledge that leads to this opinion.
Off that blink, blink, blink subject.
Bella we would love for you to stay awhile longer. It is so great adding you to our family. Mom loves you and so do the rest of us. Lara and Chris are really great "parents." Goes back to the fact they have two great sets of parents and families that understand that families can extend beyond just the house you live in and/or country.
Dad Orville is still not well. He is deteriorating so quickly. Mom makes sure she goes out to feed him at least once a day. He won't eat for anyone else for some reason. We are not sure why. I guess mom's face is kind of familiar or maybe she reminds him of his mother. I think she will have a hard time loosing a second husband, however he is not much more than a vegetable now and it is heart breaking. The people at church always ask about him.
Speaking of church, Chris I will let you know the exact date of the next noodle dinner. It is suppose to be sometime this month.
How is the house sell going? I sure hope it gets closed-on soon. Lara then you can just go to school and not have to worry about the house in Kokomo.
Well I will leave for now. I will try and post my pictures off my camera this weekend. Time is a limited resource. I try to use mine wisely. Sitting here writing...well forgive me but I just need some aaaaaaaaahhhh time.
Dad is in bed, as he is back on his shift. He was to go to the dentist yesterday for a teeth cleaning... no power at the dentist office. Soooooooo. Long drive for nothing.
Da Bo
The meetings went well this morning. Just so much new to digest along with new reg. changes. I really wish someone in the congress would ask for teacher input....!
I am "decluttering" the attic. I have a little of every one's things up there, plus dad's and mine. I have a few antiques if any of you want them. (My family only.) There are two sets of dishes, one was my grandmother's and one was my mom's. I think Mom's we will use at Thanksgiving, since she just had her 90th party it would be great to use them again. We are so blessed to have a solid foundation for a family to build on. Of course the docs are telling us that she will probably live to be at least 120. I guess that is what honest, hard working, loving families have to look forward to.
I am very proud of all four of our children. You all understand hard work and dedication. Your financial sense makes you good strong people. I love the fact you are all good with money and managing credit. It shows in what you can purchase when you want it. I am proud of the fact that you are all going to college to become teachers and physical therapist. It is tough though on getting together since it seems between your work schedules and school we can't get together much. (Austin can't wait for the next vacation!)
Casi we are all proud of the fact you decided to go through with the brain surgery. You are showing us how strong you are. Dad and I have both discussed how much happier you seem and how you are more like the little girl with the ocean blue eyes and the big wide grin we knew.
It seems odd not having a million things to do. I have finally caught up with the work I needed to get done to feel prepared for school. I am now a week ahead of schedule and I can now get a few weeks ahead I hope.
Next Saturday I will probably be doing Sat. school as Brenda asked me to do it. I always let the "young ones" have an opportunity to do it for the extra pay, however she doesn't want that next week because of how many and who the students are. The good thing about it is the pay on payday.
The desk I designed for Nichole is working great. She really loves it. Now she can be in her wheelchair and do homework with enough area to work and within her field of vision.
I do have a gripe with someone, but I won't put it on here in case they decide to read it. He just.... Oh well some folks just don't understand what family is and how you should own up to your responsibilities... Co-operation is important to keep children okay. I don't like the childish game playing. Besides he didn't do much supporting when married so why when your not. Get the hint! Besides this is my site and I have a right to my opinion and the knowledge that leads to this opinion.
Off that blink, blink, blink subject.
Bella we would love for you to stay awhile longer. It is so great adding you to our family. Mom loves you and so do the rest of us. Lara and Chris are really great "parents." Goes back to the fact they have two great sets of parents and families that understand that families can extend beyond just the house you live in and/or country.
Dad Orville is still not well. He is deteriorating so quickly. Mom makes sure she goes out to feed him at least once a day. He won't eat for anyone else for some reason. We are not sure why. I guess mom's face is kind of familiar or maybe she reminds him of his mother. I think she will have a hard time loosing a second husband, however he is not much more than a vegetable now and it is heart breaking. The people at church always ask about him.
Speaking of church, Chris I will let you know the exact date of the next noodle dinner. It is suppose to be sometime this month.
How is the house sell going? I sure hope it gets closed-on soon. Lara then you can just go to school and not have to worry about the house in Kokomo.
Well I will leave for now. I will try and post my pictures off my camera this weekend. Time is a limited resource. I try to use mine wisely. Sitting here writing...well forgive me but I just need some aaaaaaaaahhhh time.
Dad is in bed, as he is back on his shift. He was to go to the dentist yesterday for a teeth cleaning... no power at the dentist office. Soooooooo. Long drive for nothing.
Da Bo
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
It has been a month?!!!
Lara's site states it has been a month since I last posted. Time is "flying" by! I hope I can catch up to it. The first quarter is over next Friday. Just doesn't seem possible.
Rachel and Ashley are once again into their after school activities. Rachel is at skating now, so I have a few minutes til I need to go pick her up.
I don't know about the price of gas where you live but I paid 3.27 this morning and on the way home the same station had it at 3.03. I lost .24 cents per gallon. AAgghhh!!!
My students are producing great power point presentations for my speaking engagements. It is kind of nice being one of the top teachers around these here parts. Golden Ruler look out I will be a winning again. I would like to win the Disney teacher of the year. Who's Who in American Education is nice also.
Well the bad news is that the co-op has decided to change the program we are using. Hang it all. I spent over 50 hours after school and on week-ends with the last change (last year). I hope we don't change directors again for a real long time.
I have been asked to participate in several committee meetings. So my life is busier than normal. I need to get off so I can go pick up Ray. She will be finished shortly with her jump and spin practice. She improves every time. GGGGGooooo Rachelllll!!!!!!
Rachel and Ashley are once again into their after school activities. Rachel is at skating now, so I have a few minutes til I need to go pick her up.
I don't know about the price of gas where you live but I paid 3.27 this morning and on the way home the same station had it at 3.03. I lost .24 cents per gallon. AAgghhh!!!
My students are producing great power point presentations for my speaking engagements. It is kind of nice being one of the top teachers around these here parts. Golden Ruler look out I will be a winning again. I would like to win the Disney teacher of the year. Who's Who in American Education is nice also.
Well the bad news is that the co-op has decided to change the program we are using. Hang it all. I spent over 50 hours after school and on week-ends with the last change (last year). I hope we don't change directors again for a real long time.
I have been asked to participate in several committee meetings. So my life is busier than normal. I need to get off so I can go pick up Ray. She will be finished shortly with her jump and spin practice. She improves every time. GGGGGooooo Rachelllll!!!!!!
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Yahoooooo School Has Started
Austin's first day was Aug 13, mine was Aug 18th and students on the 19th. I have gotten much of the paper work done that I needed to finish. Now I have to begin actually teaching. So far I have been having a great time. The smartboard final connections were made today and the last class for the day got to write on it. They were soooooo excited. Some kids from earlier in the day came in and they started protesting because the others used it first. I invited the football coach to use some space in my room since they changed his teaching assignment he did not have a desk any more because he became a floater. I got the computer network set up in my room today. He came in and told me he was so glad he had a techy to share rooms with and that he knew that things would get done for him when needed. I showed him the football interactive part and how he can show plays using the smartboard. He is now really excited. He uses DVDs to show the games so he is excited about my wide screen. It is as big as a chalkboard. My students so far are really great. I got a new one from North Ridge. He at first was nervous, a little I am going to be bad... however the students that were in the room at the time let him know real quick that it was okay to be COOL in my room and that I was their favorite teacher. He let up and by the end of the class we had him laughing and participating in doing math problems with us. Things will be okay I believe with him now. I gave myself the largest case load. Of course some of the kids only see me and not one of the other two. I gave our newbee the easiest case load. I just feel it is only fair to start her off easy. If we change programs again this year I will be sitting in front of the computer trying to do paper work data entery for hours again. I hope not. I am going to go to the meeting to voice my opinion. I feel they need to either hire someone to enter this data or pay use overtime. If we have to enter this data I will approach the boss lady for either subs so we can work on entering data or pay us overtime. Since I make close to $375.00 per day I don't think they will want to pay me overtime.
Casi seems to be doing well. I have not heard from her for the past couple of days. I missed Lara's call this morning because my phone was at home on charge. I will talk to her in the morning. I am going to finish showing the movie 13 going on 30 for the STEP class. The boys seem to be enjoying it. We are discussing the movie - looking through the eyes of a child in an adult world. I really am not sure I am describing it exactly. However I do know the discussing that I have planned for when we end the movie.
In English class we are starting out reading Phantom Tollbooth. Tim said he felt like it is written about him. I that is good. Milo is alot like time that is why I chose the book.
It is getting late so I think I shall go to bed. Tomorrow is Friday. I need to call my Mum as a relative of her's contacted me by email. It is one of her Aunt Lizzie grandchildren. I know she will be excited as they are the ones she did not keep good contact with as adults. I hope it is another one of Zelva's children. Or who knows which one it might. be. Talk later.
Casi seems to be doing well. I have not heard from her for the past couple of days. I missed Lara's call this morning because my phone was at home on charge. I will talk to her in the morning. I am going to finish showing the movie 13 going on 30 for the STEP class. The boys seem to be enjoying it. We are discussing the movie - looking through the eyes of a child in an adult world. I really am not sure I am describing it exactly. However I do know the discussing that I have planned for when we end the movie.
In English class we are starting out reading Phantom Tollbooth. Tim said he felt like it is written about him. I that is good. Milo is alot like time that is why I chose the book.
It is getting late so I think I shall go to bed. Tomorrow is Friday. I need to call my Mum as a relative of her's contacted me by email. It is one of her Aunt Lizzie grandchildren. I know she will be excited as they are the ones she did not keep good contact with as adults. I hope it is another one of Zelva's children. Or who knows which one it might. be. Talk later.
Monday, August 4, 2008
Yipers school is ready to start.
I have a training class tomorrow. ALL DAY! Oh well such is life. I know it will be fun and I know that I agreed to it if I were to get the grant for a smart board. Well I got the grant. I have yet to see the smart board. Ed, the greatest maintenance person in the district (we are a little biased at the high school), is going to take the dry erase boards down tomorrow. The smart boards should be here next Monday. My room is taking shape. Ashley and Chelsey have been coming out to help me get things ready. Ed built me a new bookcase. I designed a desk for Nichole and Ed is going to finish building it Wed or Thur. (I knew someday I would use that mechanical drafting class.) Sometimes I wish I would have stayed in engineering and other days I am glad I am teaching. With engineering I would not have all this time in the summer to spend with my family. That is the greatest benefit of teaching.
Casi and the boys are here again. We are getting ready for a rummage sale. It is Saturday. I need to get things out of the attic. I need to call the people that collect the stuff left over as I plan to not carry one item back to my attic.
Really not a whole lot to say tonight. I posted my pictures of my garden at the family site.
By the way Kristina Austin wants to thank you for Toby. They have played together for hours now. Austin has taken him on 3 long walks. Both are being good. Austin is beginning to think about Santa's arrival. He is hoping he has been good enough.
Time for bed. Have to be up early tomorrow.
Casi and the boys are here again. We are getting ready for a rummage sale. It is Saturday. I need to get things out of the attic. I need to call the people that collect the stuff left over as I plan to not carry one item back to my attic.
Really not a whole lot to say tonight. I posted my pictures of my garden at the family site.
By the way Kristina Austin wants to thank you for Toby. They have played together for hours now. Austin has taken him on 3 long walks. Both are being good. Austin is beginning to think about Santa's arrival. He is hoping he has been good enough.
Time for bed. Have to be up early tomorrow.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Austin
Austin called all excited because his picture was in the newspaper with his diamond. He had no idea it was going to be in the paper. What a kid. Doesn't he just make you laugh. Devon was hungry while I was trying to talk to Casi so I will call her back later. I want her to scan the article and post it to our family site.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
What a GREAT FAMILY I have!!!!!
Honesty, is important. Not hiding for fear someone will find out the truth, what a way to live. That is what I love about my family... HONESTY!!!! Doesn't it feel good to know that when you go to bed at night you have been honest with yourself and with others. Not having to hide things because you have TOLD LIES to others and do not want them to be found out. Especially if you believe they can be used as proof that you are not honest or that people may get together and the real truth be found out. One thing we have always taught in our home is honesty. The truth will always come out in the end. BE PROUD OF YOUR GOOD CHARACTER!!!!
Check out my pictures of the backyard on the family site. I have not learned all I need to know about this one, and I don't seem to have much time at the present.
I have to decide if I want to attend another workshop that goes along with being the department head. I probably will since it is one about new changes. Yee gads as long as I have been doing this job you would think we could stick to the same rules for a few years.
I have a new special needs teacher this year to train. The computer I hope will not frighten her. I am now in my new classroom as we hired a new English/History teacher this year. So I moved to a room even larger than my last one and it has air conditioning.
Dad and I are loving the new car. It seems so different to drive a smaller car since I have been driving the Tahoe. I miss it in ways, however I do not miss it on fill ups. LOL
Lara is in charge of planning the family trip for 2010. I am not planning a trip for next year except with mom. Since we want to visit some of the older relatives, we have to say older only because they will all be 90+ by next summer. However they all still drive, go where they please, take care of themselves and are just a great group of people to hang with. Do you think I can get Mom to Disney again?
Marianne's scare turned out to be nothing major, so all is good again. Lara and I are taking the boys to Indiana Beach on the 12th, the day of Casi's surgery. Also Austin will be in kindergarten on the 13th... His very first day of school. I will take pictures, just like the others first day and first bus ride. You know he could just run across the field and he is at school, school policy... He must ride the bus.
Talk later.
Check out my pictures of the backyard on the family site. I have not learned all I need to know about this one, and I don't seem to have much time at the present.
I have to decide if I want to attend another workshop that goes along with being the department head. I probably will since it is one about new changes. Yee gads as long as I have been doing this job you would think we could stick to the same rules for a few years.
I have a new special needs teacher this year to train. The computer I hope will not frighten her. I am now in my new classroom as we hired a new English/History teacher this year. So I moved to a room even larger than my last one and it has air conditioning.
Dad and I are loving the new car. It seems so different to drive a smaller car since I have been driving the Tahoe. I miss it in ways, however I do not miss it on fill ups. LOL
Lara is in charge of planning the family trip for 2010. I am not planning a trip for next year except with mom. Since we want to visit some of the older relatives, we have to say older only because they will all be 90+ by next summer. However they all still drive, go where they please, take care of themselves and are just a great group of people to hang with. Do you think I can get Mom to Disney again?
Marianne's scare turned out to be nothing major, so all is good again. Lara and I are taking the boys to Indiana Beach on the 12th, the day of Casi's surgery. Also Austin will be in kindergarten on the 13th... His very first day of school. I will take pictures, just like the others first day and first bus ride. You know he could just run across the field and he is at school, school policy... He must ride the bus.
Talk later.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Up date --- backyard
It is almost finished. Well at least for this year. Except you know I will have to weed it. My goal of July 4 seems.... wow! It looks good when you look out the upstairs bedrooms windows. Well I am going for now. I have another 10 hours of work tomorrow. Talk at you later.
Monday, June 23, 2008
Okay Lara I will update quickly
As you all know I have been pretty busy. Being the head of the department means extra work for little pay. I have had meeting to attend, paper work for the state, and I have been invited to be a guest presenter for two conferences. I have been working in the yard alot. I have almost finished the monumental task of the backyard. But you know dedicated flower garden people... it never ends. I am preparing to depart to go to Casi's home and pick her and boys up. She wants to sew... however I need to get things done here so she and the boys have been coming here. Only 4 weeks till we head off to Arkansas and seems I have gotten very little done. I will add to this later as I need to hurry and get the LOVE of my life his lunch. It seem stange fixing a lunch at 10 am however that is when his is scheduled. I know I am probably the only person in the world that reads what I write... except my wonderful daughter Lara... Lara you have been a blessing since the day you were born. And by the way Rachel is ready for a photo shoot she told me. I guess maybe Kristina told her you thought she is turning into a beautiful young lady. I have to agree... It is my great genes you know... My family has that look. I think her hair helps alot also. Ashley is missing dance class. I told her this year I was going to have her go to a dance studio that does not compete... Well that didn't go over very well .... she liked being on the stage... go figure. All for now. tahtaa
Sunday, May 11, 2008
It has been to long ago!
It has been a while since I last posted. With the changes in Special Education paper work I have been busy at the computer keying in information. All of my annuals will be finished next week. This is the first year in a long time I have had this many underclass IEPs to do. 19 of them. I will survive. Thank goodness administrators are so wonderful and like the way I do my job. Next year I am the head of the department. Yeah. Once again I will be setting the case loada for everyone else. It sometimes is a challenge to keep up with all of the changes in the laws. It seems that we are writing a book for each student.
It is Mother's Day and Ashley made fudge for her Mommy while she was here. Lara and Chris came and spent the night. We all took my Mum out to eat - Covered Bridge in Eugene, Indiana. Lara and I shared the ham steak. I will add a few pictures of Ashley making her fudge.
Friday, March 14, 2008
Spring Where Are You?
Where is spring? I wish it would arrive on the weekends not during the week. I look out the window upstairs and dream of all the beautiful colors that will soon be there. I walked around the yard the other day to see if any plants were ready to sprout. Sure enough there are a few. I am planning the newest addition to the pond areas. A water fall. It floats around in my mind, so I need to get it out and on paper soon. I called around today trying to get some dirt. However there only seems to be some at a place that wants 180.00 for it. NO way am I spending that kind of money. I will wait until the city can get to theirs or watch the paper for someplace that has some. I was looking through the catalog of seeds and plants. My wants are too costly for this year, however I will start small and keep adding. I keep saying start only one project and then go to the next. I can't wait. Well all for now. Have a great day. Pray for good weather. Pray for America.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Snow - early out
The storm has arrived and we are got out early. Took mom out to eat, Marianne joined us. We each had individual pizzas. Rachel (and Ashley) is waiting on her tadpole/frogs to arrive for her science project. This will be an exciting experiment for her. She will be taking pictures and notes of the different stages of the frog development. The science fair isn't required, however she is very into science. Of course I think she is just plain ole into learning, not school, but learning.
If I wasn't still working I would home school she and Ashley. They would be much happier. Ashley doesn't like having to get up in the mornings. I have been thinking about starting an internet school. I think that would be fun. I have my plan and it just might happen soon. Well I am going to go do somethings around the house. So much to do before spring break.
If I wasn't still working I would home school she and Ashley. They would be much happier. Ashley doesn't like having to get up in the mornings. I have been thinking about starting an internet school. I think that would be fun. I have my plan and it just might happen soon. Well I am going to go do somethings around the house. So much to do before spring break.
Friday, February 29, 2008
IT"S FRIDAY!
Wow were does time go? I ordered Rachel's science fair project. She is going to raise frogs from tadpoles. Well the kit I ordered comes with different stages of the frog, so there will be a tadpole, a hind legs developed, a front legs developed, and a fully developed frog. Each frog can be seen through and she will be able to observe the inner workings of the frog without dissection. That will be cool for her to watch. We plan to allow her classroom to enjoy them after the science fair. Rachel has her camera ready and the display board also. I guess when we go on our trip we will be taking them along. I am excited about this project also as I love frogs.
Our trip seems so close. Actually it is really close. Just 19 days, counting weekends till spring break. I know the girls dad will try to see them over the break, however he will be lucky if he gets to. I don't think the judge is very happy with all the lies he has told, or the fact he has neglected to pay his child support, and to pay the settlement money he owed. Some people will never learn and they think they can get by with anything they want.
My class is making robots. They have completed their designs, gathering their materials, and making the cuts. Now it is time to build them. This activity will probably take us through spring break. My math group is playing monopoly. They are so excited that they come to class and start setting up the game from where they left off the day before. Right now the girls are ruling. Maybe those miserly boys will get the hint they need to purchase a few properties in order to have more money. They keep having to just pay the girls as they are buying up properties like they are gold. My American History class is doing a webquest on Reconstruction Era. It should be completed next week. The STEP classes have been involved in the testing this week so they are on hold until Monday. Our project will be starting a week behind schedule. I hope we can finish before spring break. Life skills is finishing their power points. We will be previewing them on Monday or Tuesday. Yeah. It is so great to complete a project.
Well I had better get off as my free time is finished and it is almost time to go home. James will post sometime. So long for now.
Our trip seems so close. Actually it is really close. Just 19 days, counting weekends till spring break. I know the girls dad will try to see them over the break, however he will be lucky if he gets to. I don't think the judge is very happy with all the lies he has told, or the fact he has neglected to pay his child support, and to pay the settlement money he owed. Some people will never learn and they think they can get by with anything they want.
My class is making robots. They have completed their designs, gathering their materials, and making the cuts. Now it is time to build them. This activity will probably take us through spring break. My math group is playing monopoly. They are so excited that they come to class and start setting up the game from where they left off the day before. Right now the girls are ruling. Maybe those miserly boys will get the hint they need to purchase a few properties in order to have more money. They keep having to just pay the girls as they are buying up properties like they are gold. My American History class is doing a webquest on Reconstruction Era. It should be completed next week. The STEP classes have been involved in the testing this week so they are on hold until Monday. Our project will be starting a week behind schedule. I hope we can finish before spring break. Life skills is finishing their power points. We will be previewing them on Monday or Tuesday. Yeah. It is so great to complete a project.
Well I had better get off as my free time is finished and it is almost time to go home. James will post sometime. So long for now.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
A Great Weekend
A few weeks ago two of my daughters, one of my daughters' husband, my granddaughters, and my grandsons and I went to the science central. It is a great place for kids to go and learn about science. Each of them were fasinated with all of the various displays and the interaction. They learned about broadcasting the news, electricity, force, walking on the moon, rocks, water animals, bubbles and much more. These kinds of adventures bring to life family sharing. As a family we have a tendency to go and enjoy things together. The next week-end we all headed to the dance competition. After the girls performed we met up at the local Chuck-E-Cheese. The kids played (even the big ones) 500 tokens spent, well almost, One grandson likes to hored his so he only spent a few, and we were ready to head to the kids favorite pizza place. Since my one daughter's husband had to work and miss the other activities he met us there. Filled with pizza, bread sticks, and drinks we all headed in our own directions home. One had a 2 hour drive northeast, one had a 2 hour drive northwest and I had a 2 hour drive southwest. These drives are well worth it as we can all spend time together, laughter is abundent, smiles glow, and everyone looks forward to the next time we will all met again.
Friday, February 15, 2008
The Weather and Just Stuff
The weather is suppose to be bad this weekend. Not to worry though I do have lots to do. I am looking into finding a place to start practicing my newest schooling skills. I don't know exactly what I am looking for, except I know what I expect it to do.
I am just about finished with scanning all of the pictures of the family that I own. If any of my family members need me to help them let me know.
The family tree information is just about all back in the tree. I will never ever get a new computer and forget to get the information saved. This has been a long journey, however the end is in sight. I have new information to enter into it. Thanks to my wonderful relatives in Wales and England I am gathering more information on my mother's family.
I hope to be able to create a new recipe this weekend and to try one that I have found for a candy my children really love. If we get the weather like they think, then I will only be staying in this weekend.
Okay I know you are wondering when will I get to the family advice... I am ready for another tidbit right now.
What is a family day? It is a day when only your family spends time together. Plan games, art projects, cooking but stay away from the TV and computer. Be creative and concentrate on only the family. The TV and computer take time away from them. While my children were growing up, we each had our own deck of playing cards. Then we would play war. We made the jokers the most powerful card of the deck. Many times we went to the park and went hiking or fishing. The grandchildren love this also. The only problem was my husband's work schedule. He could only go with us or share this time once in a great while. However he did make up this time when he was at home and so were the children.
By spending time this way with your family you create a bond of togetherness. Think back to the early days of this country, how much time was spent doing things with the family? Most of your time was spent with your family if you were not working.
I challege you to turn off the TV and computer one day per week, maybe not all day if you really "have to" watch or play on the computer. I know that many people have jobs that require the use of their computer, however can't you turn it off for a few hours and spend them with your children. Those card games we great, the fishing trips - even if we didn't catch one fish - are rememberable, and all days we spent going to parks and on small trips - memories float in your brain of happy times. I love my family. The time we spent together and still spend together means more than anything else in the whole world. Money can't buy anything like the good times. I wish everyone in the world could enjoy life with their family - without hurt or worry.
All for tonight.
I am just about finished with scanning all of the pictures of the family that I own. If any of my family members need me to help them let me know.
The family tree information is just about all back in the tree. I will never ever get a new computer and forget to get the information saved. This has been a long journey, however the end is in sight. I have new information to enter into it. Thanks to my wonderful relatives in Wales and England I am gathering more information on my mother's family.
I hope to be able to create a new recipe this weekend and to try one that I have found for a candy my children really love. If we get the weather like they think, then I will only be staying in this weekend.
Okay I know you are wondering when will I get to the family advice... I am ready for another tidbit right now.
What is a family day? It is a day when only your family spends time together. Plan games, art projects, cooking but stay away from the TV and computer. Be creative and concentrate on only the family. The TV and computer take time away from them. While my children were growing up, we each had our own deck of playing cards. Then we would play war. We made the jokers the most powerful card of the deck. Many times we went to the park and went hiking or fishing. The grandchildren love this also. The only problem was my husband's work schedule. He could only go with us or share this time once in a great while. However he did make up this time when he was at home and so were the children.
By spending time this way with your family you create a bond of togetherness. Think back to the early days of this country, how much time was spent doing things with the family? Most of your time was spent with your family if you were not working.
I challege you to turn off the TV and computer one day per week, maybe not all day if you really "have to" watch or play on the computer. I know that many people have jobs that require the use of their computer, however can't you turn it off for a few hours and spend them with your children. Those card games we great, the fishing trips - even if we didn't catch one fish - are rememberable, and all days we spent going to parks and on small trips - memories float in your brain of happy times. I love my family. The time we spent together and still spend together means more than anything else in the whole world. Money can't buy anything like the good times. I wish everyone in the world could enjoy life with their family - without hurt or worry.
All for tonight.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Somethings I Have Learned as a Parent
Some of the things I have learned as a parent are that it doesn't pay to worry about small stuff. A great book is "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff." I use it in my classroom when I have students that seem to fix on something and cannot get over it. I apply much of its suggestions in my own life.
Another thing I learned while raising my great (most parents believe they have great kids) is that limit your rules to the important things. While at work one day I was sitting there think what to do about the fact when I get home I had become the neighborhood babysitter later and later into the evening. When my kids had lessons of some kind or a game we needed to go to the other parents didn't seem to be around for their kids to go home to. Yes I did like the fact I knew where my kids were and what was going on, however it was becoming a challenge for us to be a family. I sat there and wrote some rules. (1.) all kids that did not belong to me would be going home at 6 PM, or when we needed to leave. (2.) Homework needed to be completed by 8:30 PM
(3.) Sundays were family days and no-one was going with us or going to be at our home...only family. These were the only rules. My one child, the one most likely to protest these rules went to her room to think them over. Soon she returned and said, "Mom we need to talk about these rules." I told her fine, but they probably wouldn't change. She then preceeded to state her case. She did not believe that 6 PM was early enough for everyone to leave. She just didn't believe she could get everything done if people were around after 5 PM. I called the other kids in to the family room and told them what she had proposed. They agreed that 5 PM was better than 6. We did change that one rule. When she became an adult I asked her why she wanted the time change. To my surprise it was a relief to her to not have others at our home so many hours each day. She didn't have to ask or tell people she didn't want to play any more because she had homework, but Mom got to send everyone home and then she was the "bad guy." We did allow one little boy to spend more time with us since we were more of a family to him than his own. When he graduated from high school he thanked me for being such a good parent to him.
All for today. Good night.
Another thing I learned while raising my great (most parents believe they have great kids) is that limit your rules to the important things. While at work one day I was sitting there think what to do about the fact when I get home I had become the neighborhood babysitter later and later into the evening. When my kids had lessons of some kind or a game we needed to go to the other parents didn't seem to be around for their kids to go home to. Yes I did like the fact I knew where my kids were and what was going on, however it was becoming a challenge for us to be a family. I sat there and wrote some rules. (1.) all kids that did not belong to me would be going home at 6 PM, or when we needed to leave. (2.) Homework needed to be completed by 8:30 PM
(3.) Sundays were family days and no-one was going with us or going to be at our home...only family. These were the only rules. My one child, the one most likely to protest these rules went to her room to think them over. Soon she returned and said, "Mom we need to talk about these rules." I told her fine, but they probably wouldn't change. She then preceeded to state her case. She did not believe that 6 PM was early enough for everyone to leave. She just didn't believe she could get everything done if people were around after 5 PM. I called the other kids in to the family room and told them what she had proposed. They agreed that 5 PM was better than 6. We did change that one rule. When she became an adult I asked her why she wanted the time change. To my surprise it was a relief to her to not have others at our home so many hours each day. She didn't have to ask or tell people she didn't want to play any more because she had homework, but Mom got to send everyone home and then she was the "bad guy." We did allow one little boy to spend more time with us since we were more of a family to him than his own. When he graduated from high school he thanked me for being such a good parent to him.
All for today. Good night.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Just what am I thinking?
Here I sit in front of this computer. I have been teaching for 30 years. My students and I have discussed the No Child Left Behind act. They are of the thought that the composers of this bill do not understand education and that they do not understand that NOONE can make them learn if they don't want to.
I know many great teachers and I know many young people that woud be great teachers, however faced with an act such as NCLB education cannot recruit qualified people to take on the task of educating our students.
You see not everyone in the United States is going to college, nor do they have the desire to go. Without individuals to cook and serve food, we would need to close all McDonalds, Pizza Huts, Papa John's, Red Lobster's, and every other food service business as everyone would be over educated to want to work these lower paying jobs. That would mean that women or maybe men, will need to stay at home and COOK. That wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't for the fact the cost of goods and services, electric, gas, water, etc. keeps increasing in cost, which means one earner families cannot survive.
Further more I ask each member of congress that passed this act..."How would you like for your job as congress be judged by a test given to the American public as to what you are doing in Congress?" It is a matter of just how well you can educate the American public of what you are doing. When I watch c-span I notice that most congressional members are not there participating in discussions, not are they listening while another person is talking. I watch as the camera pans the room and notice all of the empty seats. This leads most to believe you are overpaid and much underworked. If you really want to help education, pass an act that holds the students accountable and not the teachers. You are using teachers to get elected into office because it is easy to not like teachers because of the institution they work in.
Parents how can you help your student? First become actively involved in what your child is doing in school. Require them to do their homework. Provide them with a home life that will show them you care what they are doing. Too many times I have had students tell me about being in the Walmart parking lot at 2 AM visiting with their friends on a school night. How can they come to school and be successful if they are out at 2 AM? How much can they learn in school the next day when all they can do is function enough to move from class to class. Sleep comes to them during the school day. If you don't believe this I am sure you can pick up just about any school in this country's yearbook and you will find many pictures of kids sleeping during class.
Enough of my rantings for tonight. Good night.
I know many great teachers and I know many young people that woud be great teachers, however faced with an act such as NCLB education cannot recruit qualified people to take on the task of educating our students.
You see not everyone in the United States is going to college, nor do they have the desire to go. Without individuals to cook and serve food, we would need to close all McDonalds, Pizza Huts, Papa John's, Red Lobster's, and every other food service business as everyone would be over educated to want to work these lower paying jobs. That would mean that women or maybe men, will need to stay at home and COOK. That wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't for the fact the cost of goods and services, electric, gas, water, etc. keeps increasing in cost, which means one earner families cannot survive.
Further more I ask each member of congress that passed this act..."How would you like for your job as congress be judged by a test given to the American public as to what you are doing in Congress?" It is a matter of just how well you can educate the American public of what you are doing. When I watch c-span I notice that most congressional members are not there participating in discussions, not are they listening while another person is talking. I watch as the camera pans the room and notice all of the empty seats. This leads most to believe you are overpaid and much underworked. If you really want to help education, pass an act that holds the students accountable and not the teachers. You are using teachers to get elected into office because it is easy to not like teachers because of the institution they work in.
Parents how can you help your student? First become actively involved in what your child is doing in school. Require them to do their homework. Provide them with a home life that will show them you care what they are doing. Too many times I have had students tell me about being in the Walmart parking lot at 2 AM visiting with their friends on a school night. How can they come to school and be successful if they are out at 2 AM? How much can they learn in school the next day when all they can do is function enough to move from class to class. Sleep comes to them during the school day. If you don't believe this I am sure you can pick up just about any school in this country's yearbook and you will find many pictures of kids sleeping during class.
Enough of my rantings for tonight. Good night.
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